Dancing with Uncertainty

Dancing With Uncertainty

It is difficult to write about certain aspects of my work with Jennie. While it has been the best thing I’ve done for my personal growth, the process has been challenging and painful in many ways. It has required that I ‘walk through the fire’ to get to the other side, to a life

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Career Moves

“There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” ~ Nelson Mandela

When I was around twenty or so my father cautiously asked me what I thought I might want to do with my life. His question just sort of lay there between us like a big blob of alien slime.

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Body of Work: Illness as a Path to Wholeness

So often we drift through our days in various states of trance-like distraction and habit of thought and action. Then there are times when all that falls away and we find ourselves very much alert to the raw power of our core fears.

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Presence: Beyond Good & Evil

The other day I was having a conversation with a group of friends about ‘evil.’ Most of us had strong definitions and opinions on the subject, calling up various personal and historical examples of violence, hatred, exploitation, atrocity and abuse to make our points. What didn’t come so easily was what, if anything, to do about it? How to process our emotions around it? Where and how to place this concept in our world view?

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Choice Questions

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Writer and Buddhist meditation teacher Susan Piver recently posed the question on facebook: “What do you think would happen if just for one hour, you stopped trying so hard?” Subsequent comments were both humorous and poignant. Here are a few that stood out for me:

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Trust Fund Management

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Trust. How does that word land with you? Chances are, if your life experience is anything like mine, there’s an immediate emotional charge around the word – loaded with meaning and memory. Much like money, we speak of trust as something of worth, something that is gained, earned, given, and /or withdrawn. If I’m feeling too vulnerable I can tip out of power and become defensive.

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